Uma ukubukeka kwe-dapper kuyinto oyikhathalelayo, kusobala ukuthi unamasudi amaningana. Ukukhuluma iqiniso, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyiphi insimu, isizinda, noma isigaba empilweni, okungenani izingcezu ezimbalwa zamasudi kufanele ube nazo kumnumzane wanamuhla.
Kodwa-ke, ngesinye isikhathi ukukhetha isudi elungile noma ukugqoka kahle kungaba yinto ekhohlisayo futhi uma kunjalo, sigcine sizizwa sikhathele noma sididekile. Lokhu kuvame ukubangelwa ukudideka namaphutha esiwenza uma kuziwa ekulungiseni amasudi.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungumthandi wamasudi osemnkantshubomvu noma umusha ezweni lamasudi kanye nobuhle obuhambisana nawo, ezibalwe ngezansi yizinto okufanele uzinake ngokuhlekisayo ukuze ugweme amaphutha athile abantu abangawaziki. Ungase ungawutholi lowo muzwa wokuthi "ungekho" kodwa cishe wenza amaphutha. Ukubekela eceleni lawa maphutha kuzokwandisa kakhulu ukuzethemba kwakho futhi kusebenzele ukubukeka kwakho okumangalisayo.
1. Usayizi Ongalungile
Leli elinye lamaphutha amakhulu okufanele bonke abanumzane bawagweme. Ubukhulu buyohlale bubaluleke kakhulu. Cishe ungabukeka kangcono ngesudi eshibhile kunesudi ezulayo egqekeza ibhange. I-suit eqinile ikwenza ubukeke uvilapha futhi, ngakolunye uhlangothi, usayizi omncane kakhulu udala ngokungadingekile, ukucindezeleka, nokunaka okungavamile okuvela kubantu abaseduze.
2. Ukukhetha Isudi Engahambisani Nomcimbi/Umcimbi
Uma uyindoda enesitayela esihle kanye nomuzwa wemfashini, kucace bha kuwe ukuthi uhlobo ngalunye lwesudi lufanele inhloso ethile. Ngo-mcimbi womshado, isudi enikeziwe izolingana kahle kodwa isudi ncamashi izoba yinqaba ngokumangalisayo uma igqokwa emhlanganweni webhizinisi.
Iphuzu elibalulekile ukuthi, wazi amasudi akho kahle. Yazi isudi ozoyidlala ku-Prom kanye neyokugqokwa emshadweni wasolwandle. Ngokomcimbi noma umcimbi, umklamo, umbala, ukuthungwa, nezinye izici kwakhiwa ukuze kuhambisane nemvelo yomcimbi. Khetha uma kuziwa ekukhetheni ingubo yakho yesudi. Qiniseka ukuthi ukubukeka kwakho kukuhle futhi kulula futhi kufana kahle nomcimbi.
3. Ukucatshangelwa Okuncane Noma Akukho Ngethoni Yesikhumba
Ibala lesikhumba kanye nesikhumba eminyakeni yamuva nje kube yinto ebalulekile yemfashini nokugqoka, nakubantu besilisa. Ngokungafani nangaphambili lapho kucatshangwa ukuthi kucatshangelwa abesifazane. Ukukhetha inhlanganisela yesudi ehambisana nebala lesikhumba sakho kuzothuthukisa izinto ngokuphelele. Njengoba kuhlala kunjalo, usathane usemininingwaneni. Ukunakekela le mininingwane ebonakala ingacacile yikho okukwehlukanisa njengendoda enesitayela esihle, evelele kontanga yakho.
4. Ukuphelelwa yisikhathi
Amadoda amaningi ngokungazi enza iphutha lokufuna amasudi asemfashinini kwesinye isikhathi acwebezelayo. Ukugcina lokho kubukeka kwe-sleek kubaluleke kakhulu kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi, isitayela esihle nokubukeka kugcinwa yizicucu zesudi zakudala nezingapheli.
Mayelana nomcimbi othize, isudi yakho kufanele ibe lula, ibe yakudala kodwa ibe yenza izitatimende. Ukubukeka kwakho kukhuluma kakhulu ngaphambi kokuthi ukhulume igama. Kwezinye izimo, kungagqokwa isudi esemfashinini kodwa amasudi asemfashinini futhi azwela kakhulu akumele abe yinsakavukela ekhabetheni lakho.
5. Ukunaka Kancane Izinsiza
Ukungagxili ekukhetheni isudi efana nezinsiza ezitholakalayo kuwe kungase ezikhathini eziningi kubize ukubukeka kwakho kakhulu. Ukufanisa izisekeli zakho ngokufanelekile kuyisa ubuhle bakho kuleveli entsha. Ngakho-ke, lapho ukhetha isudi, lapho uthenga, noma lapho ukhetha ekhabetheni lakho ozoligqoka, qiniseka ukuthi unezinsiza ezihambisana kahle nempahla oyikhethayo.
Embuzweni wokugqoka ngendlela efanele nokukhetha amasudi akho kahle, amanye amaphutha enziwa kalula futhi ngokungazi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugwema lezi ziphutha zokugqoka ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi ukubukeka kwakho kuhlala kupholile, kumangalisa, futhi kuphakamisa ukuzethemba kwakho kanye nokunethezeka.